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2024 Receipts

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2024 Receipts
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According to Substack, I published 65 newsletters in 2024. This, my final newsletter of the year, will be 66. I don’t even want to know how many words I put down on paper, but those of you who regularly read this newsletter know it’s a lot. Your girl doesn’t usually struggle to find something to say.

And yet today, I am. Perhaps I was overambitious in thinking I would publish right up until the end of the year, squeezing in one more newsletter amid the holiday madness. Usually, I love to be reflective and nostalgic, but this year I just feel an urge to keep moving forward. I’m not sure how I feel about 2024. I worked hard; saw some big wins; missed out on some big goals I set for myself; celebrated one year of self-employment, eight years of motherhood, 15 years of marriage, and 44 years of living. It wasn’t my favorite year, but it also wasn’t the worst. Perhaps that’s why I’m not feeling particularly introspective.

But in order to move forward, it is important to consider what worked and what didn’t in the past 12 months. So with that in mind, here are the 2024 highlights. It was a year!

January 2024

Started the month with 900 free subscribers

The highlights

I hit the ground running in the new year.

  • I moved The Purse to Substack!
Careening into 2024
Hello friends!
  • I launched Home Economics!
Home Economics No. 1: Living in Brooklyn on $466k joint income
Welcome to our new series HOME ECONOMICS, where we take a deep dive into someone’s financial situation by looking at their earnings, monthly expenses, and general money story.
  • Substack featured the first Home Economics in Substack Reads. It felt a bit like going viral, though the numbers are nothing like what I used to see at Refinery29 or CNBC. As a result, I got more than 3,000 new (free) subscribers from the single newsletter.
  • I launched Division of Labor by asking Ken to participate in sharing a day in our lives in Brooklyn.
How mom and dad make it work (and sometimes don't)
Hello! Welcome to The Purse! There are so many new subscribers thanks to being featured in the Substack newsletter last week! I’m excited you’re here! I know many of you might be expecting another round of HOME ECONOMICS—it’s been amazing to see so much enthusiasm for the series—but for the time being, I’ll only be publishing it once a month. But I’ve g…

February 2024

Started the month with 4,338 free subscribers

The highlights

  • I launched In Her Purse by featuring the lovely Heather Boneparth!
In Her Purse: Heather Boneparth
Have you ever met someone and known almost immediately that you must be friends with this person? That’s how I felt when I first met Heather Boneparth via a Zoom call last fall. At the time, The Purse was on a different newsletter platform, and I was
  • I wrote about Dave Ramsey shaming a couple who is spending $80,000 on childcare. This was one of my favorite posts of 2024.
Struggling to make ends meet on $180k because you're spending $80k on childcare
Happy Valentine’s Day! This post is long and has nothing to do with romantic love!
  • I started taking financial planning classes at NYU. A year later, it still feels strange to be back at school! But in the last 12 months, I finished three classes, and I’m so proud of myself for not quitting, especially after the tax class nearly killed me.

March 2024

Started the month with 5,604 free subscribers

The highlights

  • I wrote about salary transparency and how complicated it can be to talk about money. And without much fanfare (a paragraph at the end of a very long essay), I announced I was turning on paid subscriptions. While I had many friends who had “pledged” their support before I turned on paid, the initial post earned me just three new paid subscribers, which felt very anticlimactic.
Let's be real: Salary transparency is complicated
Yesterday was my least favorite holiday of the year “Equal Pay Day.”

April 2024

Started the month with 6,316 free subscribers and 39 paid subscribers

The highlights

  • I know I shouldn’t play favorites with Home Economics, but I absolutely loved April’s edition featuring a divorced 63-year-old freelance writer who lives in Colorado and has only $50,000 in retirement savings. The writer was just so open and honest about her experience, and the comment section was so vibrant. These are exactly the kinds of stories I want to tell on The Purse, and I will be forever grateful to the author for sharing her story.
Home Economics No. 4: Divorced, 63, and living in Colorado with $50,000 in retirement savings
Hello! I hope everyone is having a good week!
  • I also wrote a very heartfelt newsletter asking readers to upgrade to paid. It was terrifying! I remember hitting send and then leaving the house to do an errand just so I wouldn’t sit at my desk and hit refresh on my email to see if people were reading and upgrading. The response was incredible: I got 91 new paid subscribers, and what’s more, I heard from so many people that it inspired them to speak up for themselves.
I believe women deserve to get paid for their work
I’ve struggled with how to begin this newsletter. What I’m about to ask makes me feel deeply uncomfortable! But sometimes you just have to push yourself outside your comfort zone and do the hard thing. And that’s what I’m doing today.

May 2024

Started the month with 6,657 free subscribers and 155 paid subscribers

The highlights

  • Just as I try not to play favorites with Home Ec, I feel a bit guilty having a favorite Division of Labor. Still, I cannot deny my love for May’s edition featuring my friend Rebecca Gale and her husband, Warren Margolies. Perhaps it’s because I’ve known Rebecca since our Girl Scout days, or maybe it’s because she and Warren were so frank about their true division of labor, but I think this is one of the most interesting editions of DoL.
Division of Labor No. 4: A writer and a lawyer raising 3 kids in Washington, D.C.
Welcome to The Purse, a newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!The Purse is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a paid subscriber.
  • I also wrote about how much I love being a mom in a widely shared newsletter that was one of the most popular of 2024. More than 100 people left comments sharing their own motherhood experiences, and reading them made me feel so happy.
In Defense of Motherhood
Welcome to The Purse, a newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!The Purse is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.

June 2024

Started the month with 7,204 free subscribers and 179 paid subscribers

The highlights

  • June marked one year of The Purse, and I didn’t shy away from talking about the good and the bad of entrepreneurship in my anniversary newsletter. Boy, I did not expect people to be so excited about this post where I was so open about jealousy and loneliness and my financial situation. The newsletter earned me more than 200 new free subscribers and 41 new paid subs. More than 100 people left comments, and only a few of them told me to suck it up. 🙃
Some frank thoughts on money, jealousy, and loneliness
Welcome to The Purse, a newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!
  • I also launched the first paid edition of Home Economics featuring a very cool family in Kansas City, MO, who are focused on achieving financial independence but doing it on their own terms.
Home Economics No. 7: FIRE family living in Kansas City, Mo., on $125k with a goal of saving $2.5 million
Welcome to The Purse, a newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!
  • On June 20 (yes, I had to check my calendar!), I had coffee with Erika. It was supposed to be a catchup and coworking day—we had rescheduled this meetup three times (working mom schedules, LOL)—but it turned into something else entirely as we started brainstorming what The Purse would look like if she joined the team. Definitely a 2024 highlight!
  • The last week of June, Substack included The Purse as a featured publication, and as a result, I got more than 1,000 new free subscribers in a week. Nuts!

July 2024

Started the month with 7,976 free subscribers and 271 paid

The highlights

The Cost of Having Friends
Welcome to The Purse, a newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!The Purse is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.
  • In early August, Jess Graves of THE LOVE LIST included the Cost of Friendship newsletter in her Substack Reads roundup!

August 2024

Started the month with 9,466 free subscribers and 271 paid

The highlights

  • Erika and I officially announced our partnership in a special edition of In Her Purse!
In Her Purse: The Cofounders Edition
Welcome to The Purse, a reader-supported newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!
  • I felt like this month’s paid Home Economics was the most underread of the year. It featured a couple in Texas who are insurance adjusters and live full-time in their RV as they travel the state for their jobs. The author is such a wonderful storyteller, and I love all the details she shared about their experience paying off $30,000 in debt.
Home Economics No. 11: Independent Insurance Adjusters Living Full-Time in Their RV on $9,100 a Month
Welcome to The Purse, a reader-supported newsletter about money and women and motherhood and careers and all that good stuff!
  • August was also notable because The Purse crossed the 10,000 free subscriber mark!

September 2024

Started the month with 10,168 free subscribers and 334 paid

The highlights

  • I kicked off the month with a guest post from about the mental load of feeding our families.
The Mental Load of Feeding a Family
Hello friends! We’re back in Brooklyn after a week away, my son goes back to school today, and we’re planning a big family birthday party for this weekend, so needless to say I’m losing my mind a little bit! (There’s so much laundry and so many forms and not enough child care, and everyone is back to work and sending emails!) Luckily, I was smart enough…
  • And then Katherine and I announced our fundraising campaign for North Carolina Democrats. Together we raised more than $7,000! (I lost a lot of free and paid subscribers as a result, but I regret nothing!)
The Power of The Purse
Before I kick things off today, I just wanted to take a moment to remember the lives lost on September 11, 2001. It’s hard to sum up how much our world changed after that horrible day 23 years ago. I’m thinking of those who lost loved ones and sending so much love.
  • I launched the first monthly roundup newsletter, September Receipts, where I shared a bit more about life running The Purse.
September Receipts
Hello! I’m taking a page from my friend Laura Fenton’s playbook and trying something new this month: a September recap. Here’s a peek at everything that went on at The Purse, including some thoughts on the highs and lows of building a media business.

October 2024

Started the month with 10,595 subscribers and 337 paid subscribers

The highlights

  • October is always one of my favorite months of the year because it feels like a month when you can really get shit done. And I really did get shit done! We did everything this month!
  • I wrote about kids and money and all the weird questions my son asks me that I don’t have answers to. (TBH, I’m still not over the commenter who scolded me for taking my kid to McDonald’s and Target!)
How are we supposed to talk to our kids about money?
This edition of the newsletter is brought to you by our friends at Winne.
  • I mixed things up in Division of Labor and featured my friend Anna Davies, who’s a single mom by choice. Raising a child looks very different when you don’t have a partner. Anna showed readers just how important it is to have a village.
Division of Labor No. 11: A Single Mom Raising Her Daughter in Jersey City
I don’t know about you, but I feel my anxiety spiking with less than two weeks until the election. I’m also having a hard time imagining what life is going to be like after November 5. I found myself shutting off NPR in frustration this week, as some Pennsylvania fracking exec explained to Steve Inskeep that he’d be voting Republican because he was worr…
  • We also hosted our first event, in partnership with Astor. Gathering more than 60 women in a cute Brooklyn bar for an evening of intimate conversations about life and money was definitely one of my top 10 moments of 2024!
  • And to end the month, I wrote about how Instagram has broken my brain and it feels like everyone but me is taking $10,000 vacations. I loved getting a chance to interview Erica Ho for this piece. She offered some good advice on how to plan amazing vacations without breaking the bank or falling victim to social media trends.
Is everyone but me taking $10,000 vacations?
Hi! It’s less than a week out from the election, and I’m honestly having a hard time focusing on anything! I’ve been trying to write this essay about travel since August, and I had a hole in my calendar this month, so I’m sharing it today, even if the timing feels a little weird.

November 2024

Started the month with 11,105 free subscribers and 422 paid

The highlights

  • This was definitely a difficult month, and I’m still not sure how I woke up on November 6 and found the wherewithal to write an essay about my disappointment in the presidential election results. Two months later, I still feel sad but determined.
Where do we go from here?
Last week, Erika asked me if I wanted to write anything following the election. My initial response was hell no. Why would I want to enter the fray?
  • An antidote to fear and sadness is to lean into community, and I was so grateful that Argent hosted Purse readers for a lovely evening at the Soho store. It was so special to meet so many of you in person, and I can’t wait for more Purse events in the new year.
  • I wrote a very personal essay about aging and beauty and the siren call of spending thousands on cosmeceuticals. I had such interesting interviews with Katie Gatti Tassin, Jessica Cruel (Elle), and Jessica DeFino for this piece.
It’s My Birthday: Should I Get Botox?
It’s my birthday, and I’m offering a special discount: 44% off annual subscriptions! The special will run through the end of the month because I’m a big fan of dragging out birthday celebrations as long as I can! Paid subscribers get an extra Home Economics each month, plus they are entered into a monthly giveaway. And they can feel warm and cozy knowin…
  • I loved collaborating with Melanie Ehrenkranz for a Home Ec featuring a laid-off communications professional in the Midwest. I think Melanie is building one of the smartest and most essential communities out there!
Home Economics No. 17: Single, 40, Laid Off, and Looking for Work in the Midwest
I’m offering a special birthday discount this month: 44% off annual subscriptions! The discount will run through the end of the month because I’m a big fan of dragging out birthday celebrations as long as I can! Paid subscribers get an extra Home Economics each month, plus they are entered into a monthly giveaway.

December 2024

Started the month with 11,852 subscribers and 474 paid

The highlights

  • It was fun to tap so many amazing writers to share how they’re infusing more joy into their holiday season. My favorite part of joining Substack this year is all the friends I’ve made.
✨ 40 Writers Share Easy Ways to Infuse More Joy into the Holidays
Here’s a thing about me: I don’t really like the holidays. I’m not someone who loves to set up their Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. We’re not a family who blasts Christmas carols from Halloween until the New Year. (Ken would never.) And maybe at Taylor Swift’…
In Her Purse: The Money Maven Edition
As this newsletter lands in your inbox, I should (fingers crossed!) be on a flight back from San Francisco, returning from our long-planned anniversary trip. (Hello from 20,000-feet!) As I’m writing this, I’m deep in that pre-vacation mania where I’m trying to get
  • And I thought the paid Home Economics was another sleeper hit. I have such a soft spot for this young woman who’s prioritizing saving without missing out on having fun in L.A.
Home Economics No. 19: A 20-Something Living in L.A. on $72k with $60k in Savings
Readers, I barely survived the worst week of the year. For those unfamiliar, the worst week (IMHO!) is the last work week before Christmas, when personal and professional deadlines merge into a fiery disaster of epic proportions. (I’m not being hyperbolic

What was your favorite Purse read of 2024? Truly, I’m dying to know!

And that’s it. That brings us to the end of 2024. I need a nap!

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